Making Christmas Merry for All

The upcoming Christmas season may seem like an ideal time to bring Mom or Dad to your home to help celebrate. While this is an excellent idea, some caution must be exercised so that you and your parent(s) better enjoy the day to its fullest.

Begin with ensuring the sidewalk is clear of ice and snow. Slippery conditions can become dangerous when one is already unsteady. Clear enough snow so that you can walk beside your loved one (rather than behind or in front of) and provide support. Provide some increased traction by sprinkling cat sand on your walkway and any steps up to your door. Tighten any loose hand railings as well to provide increased stability.

Clear away discarded wrapping paper - immediately. Gift wrap eagerly ripped off of presents can be scattered about the floor. Should Mom or Dad wish to stand up and move around, the gift wrap under foot may become a hazard.

Occupy children. Youngsters love the Christmas season and can squeal with delight with gifts received. Sudden noises can, however, startle an older individual (I remember my father strongly disliked these). Suggest that your kids play elsewhere than the living room so that your parent can enjoy some quieter moments. Better yet, take your children outside. Organize a skating party, build a snow fort out in the back yard or go toboggoning ... Mom or Dad may be able to catch a quick nap.

Limit the parental visit. While it may be tempting for you to involve your parent for the entire Christmas day, remember that he/she will tire more easily. Choose your visiting time carefully ... you will likely know by now when Mom or Dad is most cognizant. If your parent does not join you for Christmas dinner, why not wrap up a plate of turkey and take it over to your parent's care facility?

Adjust some family traditions. Mom may not exactly remember her gravy recipe; Dad may not be able to effectively carve the turkey. Now is the time for other family members to step in and fill those roles. Certainly do what you can to maintain the older traditions, but why not look to create some new ones as well?